Three pairs of children's shoes all lined up in a row. Small gifts inside indicate the arrival of the Christmas season, repeating a tradition cherished since my childhood. I could hardly wait to set out my shoes each year. Sinterklass leaving toys in tiny … [Read more...]
Every Day Thanks
I spent the morning with Kai, no rush, unconcerned with time. We enjoyed an impromptu date of shopping, the mall's indoor play area, and a shared treat in the food court. As we laughed and played, I felt such gratitude for this sweet boy. This November, it's natural to reflect on … [Read more...]
20 Years
I wore your hat the other day. My son looked at me funny, so I put it at a jaunty angle and thought of you. I still slip on your socks sometimes. They're completely worn in the heels and never really fit in my shoes, but they were yours. Corduroy patches, tacky Hawaiin … [Read more...]
What Do Driver’s Licenses and Heads Have in Common?
Over the past couple of weeks, Ezra's been obsessed with having a "driver's license." It started with Mom, do I have a driver's license? It progressed to, Mom, why don't I have a driver's license? Most recently, it's been an emphatic statement. I don't have a driver's … [Read more...]
Deciding What I will Do: Avoiding Power Struggles and Revenge Cycles
She radiated defiance. Her body language - from the tightened mouth, to the crossed arms, to the feet rooted in one spot - indicated she was preparing for battle. The moment she tossed her pajamas in frustration, my first reaction was to demand she pick them up and … [Read more...]
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